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Name: kelvin (kelvo)
Country: United States
State: Tennessee
Birthday: 7/23/1987
Gender: Male
Interests: i'm just like a normal guy, i like long walks in the park, slow dancing in the rain, holding my love's hand through the most terrifying storm just to comfort her, scary roller coasters and peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.
Expertise: yes
Occupation: Student
Industry: Entertainment
Message: message me
Website: visit my website
AIM:  kel21495
Member Since:
12/7/2003
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| The Way I See It #76
“The irony of commitment is that it’s deeply liberating - in work, in play, in love. The act frees you from the tyranny of your internal critic, from the fear that likes to dress itself up and parade around as rational hesitation. To commit is to remove your head as the barrier to your life.”
- Anne Morriss, A Starbucks customer from New York City. She describes herself as an “organization builder, restless American citizen, optimist.” | | |
| So i guess i haven't written in here for....a while. i'm about to write in here. write now. you can read what i'm about to write if you ever get bored. it's just a lot of bs though. So I was thinking a while ago..... and it hurt. I was thinking about stress. We all have it and we all have to go through it. some more than others i guess. and then i started asking myself where stress comes from. what causes this thing that puts a damper on our everyday lives? how do we let anything handicap our daily performance? how could anything bring us down? and most importantly how do we stop it? those are questions in which i think the answer is different for each of us. some people stress over their future, some people stress over their past. some people stress over fears, and some stress over obstacles. a lot of people stress over decisions too. but you know what i think the biggest stresser is? ok i'll tell you. People. People get stressed over people more than anything else i can think of. there are some relationships that are like a constant pull of compromising and contradiction; a pull of opposites that somehow brings two together.I know one thing that i had/have a problem with is judging and expectations. a lot of stress comes from hating/disliking people and not getting along, or from being jealous for whatever reasons. all of those reasons suck. nobody can be judged by a single season of their life. you have to look at the entire life of a person. there's a reason why everyone is where they are and why they are who they are. And those experiences have molded them in to them. therefore how can anyone be hated for their experiences? sure we all make mistakes...but that's just the thing: we all make mistakes. If God showed our lives on a big projection screen, every single one of us would decide that we are not worthy of anything ourselves. we'd probably try to hide some of the scenes...just like a lot of us do in everyday life. So if we aren't worthy of any love ourselves, but we're obviously shown mercy anyways, why would we restrict our love toward anyone else? See nobody is exactly where they want or need to be. we're all a constant project. yes, we're far from where we used to be, but we're not there yet. there was only one perfect that ever walked this earth. and it wasn't me or you. so i guess what i'm trying to say is that i can't judge anyone else until i'm perfect. cuz we're all trying.we're just not there yet. no worries, it's not where you are, but where you're going. and it always works out in the end. just like it always has in the past. good luck! | | |
| Kelvin's Theory on Friendship:
1. Use the standards set by the Bible for Character and Actions in a relationship. Trust, Love, Understand and Respect your friends and, above all, understand the deepest meanings of these words.
2. The most cherishable gift one can give another is Time. Relationships feed and thrive off of this and without time, they starve. Time is limited and must be spent on those friendships that you want to be most satisfied or filled.
3. The most important part of any relationship is Communication. With good communication you know what the other is thinking and is the only way eachother's unique needs in the relationship can be compromised and met. Everyone needs something unique within the relationship. Never just forget or shrug off a problem, but do not keep records of wrongs. Always forgive, mainly for your own well being. Sometimes relationships are not easy, don't give up and put in some work.
If something seems wrong in a relationship i just review these rules to see where the hole is. All off these needs must be met for a strong relationship. I believe these rules are held in our hearts, but only come to light to most people when they are broken. | | |
| Dear God,
I thought i heard your voice the other day trying to guide me through hard times. It hit me hard, but I wasn't sure if it was your voice or my concience. I wasn't sure because you were telling me to do some weird things...things that i don't really want to do. Things that i don't think that i can do on my own. Some things that don't make sense to me. Since i wasn't sure, i read the book you gave me to see if what i thought i heard you say lined up with any of the words you wrote for me. After doing so, it was much more clear. And i'm glad you shone a light on a darkness in my life just when my weaknesses began to pull me down. But it's still hard. It's hard to break habbits. It's hard to let go of worldly things. Most of all it's hard for me to realize these. It's hard to form my spirit to what you want it to be. Its hard by myself. That's why i need you to be with me and to be my friend. I need you to guide me and never leave me. Keep speaking to me. Never let me down and understand me like no one else can. I want to follow you to wherever you're trying to take me. I don't know where i'm going, but i'm ready to go there. I know whatever you have in store for me is glorious. I know that you're teaching me to walk by faith and not by sight; my vision can only see so far, but you already know where i'm going. I don't need anything else. So thank you in advance for where you're taking me.
-Kelvin | | |
| ok so this is cole. only beacuse kelvin never updates and ive almost memorized his last entry...almost. anyways. ill give you the update on the kelvster. um so this morning got up to go run at cross counrty practice. to our suprise they were having army training or somthing. so we didnt get to run. instead..we all hit marble slab to get some ice cream. sadly it wasnt open at 9am so we hit up dairy queen and baskin robins. buuuut we had the same problem. nothing was open. so we tried sonic and scored. so we ate and just sat there and talked enjoying each others company. it was nice. then later kelvin, katherine leigh, jeff, casey, and myself went to go usa. which by the way used to be called goLF usa. who knew?! anyways we raced go karts and played an intense game of throwing balls at eachother in a cage. afterwards we went to baskin robins and then to kids castle and played tag. not only was it us 5 playing tag..we got 7 other little kids playing with us. much fun. yep so that was pretty much how the day went. i hope you all are having a wonderful summer..and im sure kelvin wishes you all the best 
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cool pic huh? this was at camp and we were listening to jeff tell a story =D (look how interested we look..this musta been gooood) yep thats it. im done. have a good one. | | |
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